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  • It’s no secret that health and happiness levels are influenced by self-care practices.

    The often-overlooked element, however, is that self-care is an individual experience. Not a protocol that can be assigned by an outsider.

    This is an inside process of learning to recognize what is needed in this moment, by this unique being. Which means it’s always in flux.

    Sure, I have a foundation of self-care practices that are non-negotiable- rest, compassion, self-reflection, nourishment, movement, breath. But the strategies for addressing them is different all the time.

    For me, there’s a lot of experimentation involved. I feel a need to strengthen my body, but how? There’s tons of advice online, but non of these people know my specific needs.

    It’s been ages since I went to a gym, so I gave that a try. I don’t much care for the atmosphere (so many TV screens! WHY?) but it’s an affordable, easy way to access tons of fitness equipment.

    After giving it a solid try for a month, I realize my original assessment was correct: not for me. But I didn’t really know until I tried.

    Now I’m revisiting Foundation Training. I appreciate that it has a strong focus on anatomy, physiology and alignment. At one time it was very helpful to me but when a knee injury reappeared, I wasn’t able to do most of the exercises. That’s no longer an issue, so I’m giving it a go.

    But here’s the takeaway: I’m not saying you should quit the gym and get an FT membership. I’m just sharing a real life example to make the point that we all need to get in touch with our own bodies and listen.

    Look to the interweb for ideas, but do your own research.

    Get the help you need if you’re suffering with a malady. AND then take that doctor/coach/therapist/counselor’s advise with a grain of salt and go with what feels right to you.

    So many times I’ve worked with clients who followed the physical therapist’s or MD’s orders that caused more pain or delayed healing.

    If you know something isn’t working, contemplate what you could do instead with this new data.

    Be your own expert. Learn how to inhabit your body and hear your own truth. Take charge of your health and happiness and become a full participant in living your life fully.

    Be willing to make mistakes and try things that dead end. Be willing to pivot when that happens and try something new.

    Healing is not a linear path. Your zigs and zags, tangents and reroutes will be uniquely yours. Just pick one small thing and give it a try.

    If you’re at a loss for where to begin, consider Reiki. This ancient healing modality can do no harm, can be received from anywhere in the world and feels incredibly relaxing.

    Unique-ify Your Self-Care

    It’s no secret that health and happiness levels are influenced by self-care practices. The often-overlooked element,…

  • Reiki really gets a workout in my life. I use it every day for a wide variety of things. Stubbed toes, difficult conversations, noisy neighbors, dentist appointments, sugar cravings, anxiety, getting the good parking spaces and staying true to myself are common applications.

    In case you’re new here and don’t yet know, Reiki is an ancient energy healing technique that treats the whole self- body, mind, and spirit. It saturates all aspects of ourselves with spiritually guided life-force energy. It is safe and easy to use, yet potent and quite effective.

    Like most of us, I’ve had some traumatic experiences in childhood that lead to some coping mechanisms that are no longer helpful for me as an adult. Rather than glossing over the wounds, ignoring their impact or letting them steer my life, I have the power to heal them with my loving attention and Reiki.

    Like most of us, I’ve got some limiting beliefs buried in my subconscious that are not aligned with my conscious thoughts and values. Same with the cultural conditioning and inherited baggage. Recognizing and reprogramming my patterns is a lot easier with Reiki.

    Like most of us, I’ve got a storehouse full of unexpressed emotions that are festering in the shadows. Reiki helps me to reveal and integrate these rejected, neglected and abandoned feelings so I can be free of their shenanigans.

    Like most of us, I’ve got some aches and pains from decades of living life fully, not always having the best support or all the necessary information, and the accompanying wear and tear. Don’t even get me started on the hormonal changes of perimenopause! Reiki helps me to optimize my physical wellness and enjoy the greatest health available to me.

    Like most of us, I experience occasional imposter syndrome, resistance to change, procrastination, self-doubt and decision fatigue. Reiki gives me to boost of energy I need to get myself together and put my best foot forward.

    Like most of us, I still often wonder, even at close to 53 years old, what I want to do when I grow up, who I truly am underneath the outdated armor and survival mechanisms and what my purpose is in this lifetime. Reiki helps me get in touch with my inner wisdom and power so I can see more clearly and not sweat the small stuff.

    Whatever you’ve got going on, if you’re willing to do the work and show up for yourself on a consistent basis, Reiki can help.

    I’m offering an introductory-level Reiki 1 training beginning soon if you’re in the Philly area.

    4 Thursday evenings, 6-8pm.

    July 11, 18, 25 & August 1, 2024.

    Investment = $250.

    My classes are deliberately small because I enjoy the personal interactions and being able to witness the transformation in students from week to week.

    Plus I want to help you find your unique path. This is not a one-size-fits-all training and it’s my intention to guide you to a way that suits you just perfectly.

    You can find more information on my website, along with a link to contact me to apply.

    Reiki for ALL the Things!

    Reiki really gets a workout in my life. I use it every day for a wide…

  • Join us beginning July 11th for this 4 week in-person training in Philly.

    Reiki is an ancient technique for healing that utilizes universal life-force energy to stimulate physical, mental, emotional, spiritual and energetic wellness. It cultivates harmony, peace and vitality and removes blockages that stand in the way of experiencing the life you desire.

    Best of all, it’s safe, simple and easy to use. Side effects include deeper sleep, reduced stress and pain, and being a kinder person.

    Anyone can learn how to use Reiki. Yes, even you! There are no special skills or experience required.

    It’s one of my greatest passions to introduce folks to this healing modality and to watch as they begin to transform right before my eyes.

    We’ll meet on 4 Thursday evenings, 6-8pm. You’ll learn about what Reiki is, where it comes from, what it can be used for (almost EVERYTHING!) and how. We’ll practice giving ourselves and each other sessions and discuss how to adapt for your needs.

    July 11, 18, 25 and August 1.

    In the Mt. Airy neighborhood of Philadelphia.

    $250 investment by credit card or Venmo

    Reiki 1 Certification Class

    Join us beginning July 11th for this 4 week in-person training in Philly. Reiki is an…

  • I get so frustrated when doctors diagnose arthritis and lead people to believe that there is nothing to be done about the pain they are experiencing. Gah!

    True. There is no cure for arthritis. AND that doesn’t mean that it is a sentence to hopelessness and increasing discomfort.

    We’re talking about inflammation of one or more joints. It can be quite unpleasant when left untreated. But don’t despair. It’s possible to manage inflammation and to create space in joints that might be jammed together because of tension or imbalanced movement patterns.

    (If you’re over 20, I can practically guarantee you have at least one imbalanced movement pattern; perhaps from an old injury that didn’t heal 100% or repetitive actions from a job or hobby.)

    It’s possible to have arthritis and to minimize the resulting pain. I see it all the time and feel it in my own body. Reducing inflammation, tension and misalignment can only benefit us. Why not give it a try?

    Reiki is an amazing holistic healing technique that utilizes spiritually-guided life-force energy to reduce stress and pain. Stress is a primary driver of inflammation. It stands to reason, and has been backed up by my 20+ years of experience, that minimizing stress can provide relief to inflammatory conditions.

    Reiki can also help process suppressed emotions. Releasing anger, resentment, worry and grief that might be blocking the body’s energetic flow can help joint issues. And will help prevent us from tipping over into the stress zone where cortisol triggers more inflammation.

    You know what doesn’t help joint issues? A diagnosis presented without hope of a remedy. It’s unclear to me why the medical establishment hasn’t grasped this fact yet. Despair feeds tension that puts greater strain on the joints.

    Reducing stress and re-establishing a healthy flow of energy in the body can support the reduction of muscle tension. This encourages circulation, providing the muscles with fresh oxygen and removes cellular waste, reducing pain in the muscles which can trigger a cycle of clenching, pain, clenching and more pain. It also allows for more space in the joints.

    Reiki can also support body awareness and increase access to inner wisdom, helping us to notice when we’re using poor body mechanics and guiding us to new patterns or even therapies, such as Somatics, Feldenkrais or Gyrokinesis that promote balanced, healthy movement patterns, or products that activate the body’s innate healing abilities.

    It might take time to relearn how to sit, stand and move in alignment, meet with and metabolize feelings and trauma, manage stress and reduce inflammation.

    This is what holistic healing looks like: addressing the causes of imbalance rather than trying to eliminate the effects while carrying on with the offending behavior. It’s possible that these causes have been developing for decades; reversing this requires some patience and self-compassion.

    But with some attention, effort and consistent Reiki support, there is hope of finding greater comfort and ease in the body and peace of mind.

    To me, that seems like a much better option than doing nothing and bemoaning the doctor’s verdict.

    I’d be delighted to work with you if you’re interested in pursuing Reiki treatment, or massage if you’re in the Philly area. You might consider taking a Reiki 1 class and learning how to give yourself daily treatments.

    If that’s not your thing, I’d encourage you to explore one of the movement therapies I listed above, an anti-inflammatory diet or some form of herbal or homeopathic support.

    Most importantly, know that there is hope, as hope is one of the greatest medicines available.

     

     

     

    Reiki and Arthritis

    I get so frustrated when doctors diagnose arthritis and lead people to believe that there is…

  • I like to compare health to a bank account. Many of my students and clients find this analogy to be useful for understanding the benefits of Reiki. In the same way that we grow financial wealth by making more deposits that withdrawals, we can cultivate wellness wealth by accumulating life-force energy. Reiki is a safe and reliable method for amassing health credits.

    Instead of relying solely on medical professionals to detect problems during annual checkups, there’s much we can do every day to boost the immune system and overall wellness. The body already knows how to be as healthy as it is able, and we can support its endeavors by giving it the energy necessary to do so. Reiki is a powerful, yet simple and safe way to help all the body’s systems function more effectively.

    Life-force energy (called ki, qi, chi, and prana in other cultures) can be cultivated by lifestyle habits such as eating natural foods, spending time in nature, getting enough sleep, and expressing creativity. I view each of these activities as a deposit into a wellness account.

    Conversely, chronic worry and stress, consistent consumption of processed foods, and being excessively sedentary can be viewed as ki withdrawals. Sadly, western culture generally steers us towards a deficit by overvaluing productivity and busyness and undervaluing rest and relaxation. In order to optimize wellness, we can take steps to offset the trend towards wellness debt.

    Granted, there are factors beyond our control such as genetics, accidents, injuries, illnesses, and pollution. While we may not be able to change these circumstances, we can do everything within our power to give ourselves the best possible chance to enjoy the optimal levels of health and wellness available to us.

    Given that I am not perfect in my pursuit of a healthy lifestyle and have some chronic health issues that require extra attention, I turn to Reiki to fill in the gaps. Reiki is an ancient healing method, commonly defined as spiritually guided life-force energy. It is gentle, powerful, completely safe, and complements all other treatments. I know of no other modality that is pleasurable to receive, universally beneficial, and has no negative side-effects.

    Reiki is not limited by time or space and therefore can be received in-person or remotely from the comfort of your home. Some people enjoy the contact of human touch, some enjoy the connection of a video meeting, and others prefer to take a break from both. There are many ways to experience a treatment. Additionally, anyone can train to become a practitioner in a short period of time. During initiation, energy channels are opened, allowing access to this universal energy. Making daily health deposits is as simple as inviting the Reiki to flow.

    Consider investing in your wellness account consistently. Rather than waiting for an unwanted diagnosis, you can actively pursue the best version of health possible for you. Filling up you ki tank, either as a client or practitioner, is one way to do so with minimal effort and expense. It’s never too late to take steps toward vitality and health. Why not begin today?

    Cultivating Wellness with Reiki

    I like to compare health to a bank account. Many of my students and clients find…

  • Just a few clicks and you can have a lovely gift for Mom. It’s a win-win-win situation- easy for you, an exquisite experience and lasting memory for her, and a joy for me to be a part of the tradition of honoring mothers.

    Use the code MOMS10 at checkout to save 10% on any gift certificate or 5 session remote Reiki package.

    Save 10% on Gift Certificates through Mother’s Day!

    Just a few clicks and you can have a lovely gift for Mom. It’s a win-win-win…

  • Aromatherapy is finally here!!

    I’ve been testing and sniffing and consulting with a colleague and master aromatherapist about creating delightful essential oil blends.

    They are each designed to evoke a particular physiological and emotional outcome AND smell divine.

    Choose from one of the four mixes and elevate your healing experience.

    Calm: lavender, bergamot, and frankincense

    Ground: spruce, sweet orange, and vetiver

    Uplift: tangerine, cypress, and petitgrain

    Balance: lemongrass, rosemary, and geranium

    Some medical conditions don’t pair well with these oils- they are pretty potent medicine and need to be treated with respect. It’s important that you share any conditions or if you’re pregnant or breastfeeding, with your therapist.

    The special for May is a free upgrade with a 90-minute Reiki-massage if scheduled by May 31, 2024.

    Prepare yourself for a next-level healing experience! I hope to offer this as an add-on for all appointment types in the future, but for now the 90-minute combo is the way to go.

     

     

    Aromatherapy Special

    Aromatherapy is finally here!! I’ve been testing and sniffing and consulting with a colleague and master…

  • Spring has definitely sprung here in Philly! It’s a great time for clearing out any energy that might have gotten blocked or stagnant over the winter.

    To support this spring cleaning and the challenging energies that many are facing, I’ve decided to keep the five package remote Reiki special rolling for another month. Goodness knows, lots of people can use lots of healing energy at this time.

    Reiki is an infusion of spiritually-guided life-force energy that fosters relaxation and relieves stress and pain, stimulating the body’s innate healing abilities and freeing us up to pursue our goals.

    This is a holistic healing treatment that addresses the physical, mental, emotional, spiritual and energetic bodies. It brings our beings into balance and helps align us with our passion and purpose.

    Remote treatments are received from the comfort of your own space for maximum impact, minimum effort. We have a short phone call to clarify your needs, then disconnect so I can focus on the treatment. Afterwards, I follow up with an email, sharing any pertinent information.

    Shedding old skins, cultural conditioning, limiting belief systems, outdated coping mechanisms, releasing trauma, poor self-worth and ancestral healing are all UP these days. Reiki can help get things moving where they’d been stuck and give us the energy we need to keep going in the face of adversity.

    For those of us in any kind of transition (divorce, moving, menopause, having kids, kids growing up, grieving loss), those who are beginning a new project and those who are burning the candle at both ends, some extra support and nourishment can make a huge difference. If your energy is depleted, stagnant, stuck, stale or altogether missing, Reiki can fill up the tank.

    5 session packages are $400 when purchased through the end of April and good for an entire year. That’s a $100 savings compared to the one-off price and $50 less than the usual five package rate.

    April Special

    Spring has definitely sprung here in Philly! It’s a great time for clearing out any energy…