healthy aging

  • TRE is one of my favorite stress relief modalities. I took an introductory class with Maria about 12 years ago and found it incredibly helpful. Lately I’ve been using it most days to help with chronic tension patterns that contribute to low back pain.

    I enjoy her no-nonsense teaching style. She is very clear about what to do and why and her presence helps me to feel safe, even though we’re not in the same room. Not everyone can teach virtual classes well, but she has mastered this skill.

    From her newsletter:

    TRE (Tension & Trauma Release Exercise) is an innovative series of exercises that assist the body in releasing deep muscular patterns of stress, tension and trauma. Created by Dr. David Berceli, PhD, TRE safely activates a natural reflex mechanism of shaking or vibrating that releases muscular tension, calming down the nervous system. When this muscular shaking/vibrating mechanism is activated in a safe and controlled environment, the body is encouraged to return back to a state of balance.


    TRE® is based on the fundamental idea, backed by recent research, that stress, tension and trauma is both psychological and physical. TRE®’s reflexive muscle vibrations generally feel pleasant and soothing. After doing TRE®, many people report feelings of peace and well-being.

    This “tremor” response may seem weird at first, but it feels great to let my body shake from the inside out.

    If you have chronic stress or pain or a history of unprocessed trauma, this might be a tool to support you on your healing journey.

    Online TRE Intro with Maria Alfaro

    TRE is one of my favorite stress relief modalities. I took an introductory class with Maria…

  • Reiki 2 Certification

    The next series of in-person level 2 training is coming up!

    We meet for 6 Thursday evenings, 5:30-7:30 in my Mt. Airy (neighborhood of Philly) studio.

    November 6, 13, 20 &

    December 4, 11, 18.

    I’m predicting a snowy winter, so we’re also reserving January 8 & 15 in case of any weather-related cancellations.

    This workshop is for anyone already attuned to Reiki 1 who wishes to deepen their practice.

    You’ll learn three sacred healing symbols and how to use them for a variety of purposes. We cover enhanced self-care, treating others in person and remotely, and how to bring Reiki into your daily life in addition to a healing practice.

    It’s a great joy and tremendous honor for me to teach this class in a way that encourages retention and integration of the material and personalization of your practice.

    If you’re interested in joining us, you’ll find more information by clicking the button below. Space is limited, so don’t delay!

    Reiki 2 Certification

    The next series of in-person level 2 training is coming up! We meet for 6 Thursday…

  • I very much enjoy Jeff’s teachings on a very uncommon style of meditation. Instead of going up and out, escaping the body, he guides us down and in, landing squarely in our humanity.

    He’s offering yet another free webinar that I’m excited to attend.

    Here’s an excerpt from his newsletter:

    THE PEACE PARADOX – Why Chasing Calm is Making You Miserable (and What to Do Instead)

    Together we’ll explore:

    • Why chasing “calm” often creates more inner tension
    • How true meditation can welcome ALL emotions – even rage, grief, and fear
    • The astonishing paradox of peace – how true peace emerges when you stop trying to be peaceful!
    • A radically compassionate, deeply human approach to spiritual practice


    This is not about transcending your humanity—it’s about befriending it.

    https://jefffosteronline.com/the-peace-paradox/

    I often share his free webinars here because they address the very obstacles that I and so many others experience on the spiritual path. He’s very generous with his offerings and these freebies offer a taste of what you can expect from his programs should you wish to go deeper.

    I have no financial ties to him, this is just an amazing opportunity I want to pass along.

    The Peace Paradox with Jeff Foster

    I very much enjoy Jeff’s teachings on a very uncommon style of meditation. Instead of going…

  • Reiki 1 Certification Class

    Just yesterday I was thinking about getting a class on the calendar. Today someone emailed me to ask when the next class starts. For someone who operates on intuition, it doesn’t get much clearer than that!

    A fire was lit and the next class has been scheduled. Everything fell together so easily.

    I’ve decided to make this a 5 class series as students always want more time to practice and I don’t like to rush.

    So if you’re interested in learning how to access spiritually guided life-force energy (AKA Reiki) for healing body and mind, heart and soul, this is the starting point.

    We’ll meet on 5 Thursday evenings, 5:30-7:30 at my studio, in the Mt. Airy neighborhood of Philly.

    September 4, 11, 18, 25 & October 2.

    I’m offering a $25 discount off of the $400 price through Sunday 8/10. Use the code EARLY-BIRD at checkout.

    If you want to read more about the class, here’s where to find all the details.

    And here’s the link to register.

    Reiki 1 Certification Class

    Just yesterday I was thinking about getting a class on the calendar. Today someone emailed me…

  • Breaking Unhelpful Patterns with Reiki

    Quite frequently people who come to receive a Reiki session report feeling stuck. They want to let go of an emotion, thought, or behavior that seems to be holding them down or holding them back, but don’t know how. I think most of us can relate to this- I sure can!

    Reiki has helped me to let go of resentment, to forgive myself and those involved in numerous upsets, to release grief that had lingered way past its shelf life, and to transmute cravings for unhealthy foods, and escape a wide variety of coping mechanisms. I’ve witnessed it do all this and more for my clients.

    Flooding the energy field with Reiki helps us to rise above the ego-mind and to align with the higher self, that part of us which is eternal and unchangeable.

    From this perspective, we have a better view of unhelpful patterns and the thoughts and beliefs that hold us hostage.

    Being immersed in the flow of spiritually-guided life-force energy helps us to feel safe, accepted, and more at ease.

    This sets the stage for the type of deep inquiry that can lead to lasting change. From this sacred space of realized wholeness and empowerment, we are able to create shifts that support the changes we desire in our lives.

    And yet, it is really up to each of us to make those changes if we expect to see lasting change.

    Reiki is indeed a tremendous support in this process, but it is not the process itself. It is not a magic elixir that enables us to sit back and watch as our world morphs into something more desirable.

    The thoughts we think contribute to our future and also affect our ki (life- force energy). If we wish to improve our lives, it is essential that we take responsibility for becoming aware of how we continue to contribute to our troubles, either consciously or unconsciously. Reiki can help us do that (indeed it is a huge help in that department!).

    The work of partnering with clients who want to go to the next level and get off the merry-go-round entirely is my real passion. So much so that I developed a Reiki + Coaching combo for those who want to do the necessary inner work that leads to transformation.

    Finding the places (often thought patterns, outdated coping mechanisms, old protective strategies, or inherited beliefs) where people get stuck and helping them get unstuck is a true joy. It involves a more active treatment where the client participates in a dialog exploring resistance to moving forward in addition to the usual passive practice of receiving the healing energy.

    Now this process is not for everyone. Examining one’s shadow can be uncomfortable and requires a great deal of courage. If you’re seeking a path to healing old wounds in order to recreate a life based on peace, love, and joy then my Reiki + Coaching treatment just might be the technique to help you along the way.

    Learn more here.

    I also offer a 3 session package at 10% off the individual rate, good for two months from the date of purchase and a 5 session package at 15% off, good for three months. Availability is limited. Packages are a great way to commit to doing the work. If you’re interested, please contact me to briefly share your goals and I’ll ask a few questions to see if we’re a good match.

    Breaking Unhelpful Patterns with Reiki

    Quite frequently people who come to receive a Reiki session report feeling stuck. They want to…

  • I saw this question raised online last week. A woman was inquiring about the dreadful statistics of Americans given that everyone she asks claims to eat healthfully.

    It really got me thinking about the state of the world in which people try their best to look after themselves and fail.

    Unsurprisingly, I have a lot to say about this!

    In fact, I could probably write a book about my thoughts on this subject. I don’t have the energy to do that as I spend some much time on cultivating my own health. But as I pondered, two key factors have floated up to the top of my list of key offenders.

    One. Chronic stress. Stress is normalized, even celebrated in our culture. It’s normal for people to spend more than half of their waking hours in a toxic work environment. The more you work, the busier you are, the more stress you have, the better. That’s the upside-down message we receive in this crazy society.

    This is not healthy! If this describes your everyday reality, know that you’re going to need to take action to mitigate the effects of chronic stress by learning to regulate your nervous system and/or metabolize the physiological impact of being chronically disregulated.

    We now know the damaging effects of a constant cortisol drip, but for many of us, there doesn’t seem to be an alternative. The system is rigged against us. Dropouts, misfits, and revolutionaries are able to escape this insanity, but you need to be a risk-taker to go this route.

    Two. We’ve lost touch with our inner wisdom and turn to external “experts” for strategies about health. With so many doctors being specialists in one narrow corner of medicine, few have the big picture of wellness in mind. If you’re lucky enough to be able to afford a functional medicine doctor or homeopath, you’re still having to battle uphill against societal norms.

    So often I hear people talking about their “healthy choices” and feel surprised at what they consider to be healthy. Low fat? Low carb? There’s so much conflicting information out there. So many of our strategies are influenced by advertisements sneakily disguised and normalized by repetition.

    Milk- it does a body good. Remember this campaign from the 80’s? It an advertisement paid for by the dairy council! Milk may or may not be good for your body- we’re all different. But that isn’t a catchy slogan that people will recall for decades.

    Trident- it’s what 2 out of 3 dentists recommend for their patients who chew gum. Another ad from my childhood. It sounds like dentists are promoting sugar-free gum, right? But I don’t think any dentist suggests chewing gum. They are definitely opposed to sugar-laden gum like good-ole Hubba Bubba, but I can’t see that any are promoting gum itself.

    And 2 out of 3? Not out of every dentist, just those surveyed. Do you think that Trident was careful in its selection of dentists to survey? Yeah.

    I don’t remember much from my college days, but I took Statistics and the professor spelled out all the different ways you can lie with numbers by carefully crafting statements to reflect the preferred outcome.

    We’ve been overtly and covertly influenced by information that is designed to mislead us, to make us feed bad about ourselves, to believe that if we just purchase this or that, all will be well. But capitalism is about selling stuff, not creating wellness, and there’s a heck of a lot more purchasing going on by people who want to be well than by people who are well.

    Ok, one more reason I can’t ignore.

    Three. Our food supply is full of crap. We tinker with the genetic material of plants in a lab. If that doesn’t freak you out, one of the reasons for this tinkering is to make plants strong enough to survive a chemical pesticide that is so deadly, it would kill the plant otherwise. Then those plants are manufactured into “food”, along with residue of that toxic chemical.

    Yum.

    Labels are deliberately misleading. Recipes are engineered to be super-addictive so people buy more and more and more.

    The whole system is whacked.

    If you’re struggling with health despite doing your best, it’s not your fault. Billions of dollars are invested to fool you.

    Please don’t despair! That’s not good for your health either. The situation isn’t hopeless. I wouldn’t be writing this post just to leave you feeling depressed.

    Reiki can help.

    It can help relieve stress, detoxify your body, and amplify your connection to your inner wisdom, clarity, motivation and intuition. Every day it helps me figure out my priorities and move in the direction I want to go.

    It’s not your fault that this world is so unhealthy. But if you want to have a different experience than the one you’ve been having, it is your responsibility to do something different. That could mean changing your job, shopping at a farmers market and preparing more of your meals at home, or working with a naturopath.

    Or schedule a Reiki session for yourself once or twice each month to build up your life-force energy and manage your stress. You don’t even need to go anywhere- distance treatments can be received from wherever you are with very little effort. Just click a few buttons, share your goals, and sit back to soak it all up.

    Why are so many people unhealthy?

    I saw this question raised online last week. A woman was inquiring about the dreadful statistics…

  • Interested in giving yourself daily infusions of spiritually-guided life-force energy?

    It’s so easy to learn!

    Anyone can gain full-time, forever access to Reiki healing energy with minimum investment of time and money.

    It’s the most affordable way I know to get consistent treatment for physical, mental, emotional, spiritual and energetic issues.

    Chronic pain, anxiety, depression, fatigue, digestive issues, fertility issues, sleep challenges, focus, creativity, peace, joy and freedom are some of the myriad goals it can be used for.

    I know because I’ve done exactly that every day for 21 years. And IT’S WORKING!!

    Reiki is an ancient healing technique that uses universal life-force energy to cultivate body-mind-spirit balance, stimulate the relaxation response, and relieve stress and tension.

    It’s a seemingly magical reset that helps all systems come back online and integrate for maximum wellness.

    I’m offering a Reiki 1 certification training, the starting point for those who want to learn how to treat themselves and their loved ones.

    We begin on Thursday, October 17th at 6pm in my Mt. Airy (neighborhood of Philadelphia) studio.

    This can be the beginning of a new phase in your life if you commit to blending Reiki into your life.

    Get Your Lifetime Pass to Healing Vibes

    Interested in giving yourself daily infusions of spiritually-guided life-force energy? It’s so easy to learn! Anyone…

  • I’m getting older and let me tell you, it’s pretty amazing! Today is my birthday and rather than lamenting the fact that I’m aging, I’m celebrating. I’m not supposed to tell you that I’m 53, but I’m delighted to do so! I’m not ashamed to be in my 50’s. Quite the opposite. I find it quite empowering.

    I know who I am and what I want in ways that I never did when I was younger. It’s very refreshing! No more am I trying to fit myself into someone else’s expectations and the sense of freedom is invigorating.

    We’ve been sold a narrative that once you reach a certain age, health begins to fail. Well, that’s just bullshit! It’s perpetuated by the marketing industry trying to sell us stuff that treats the surface symptoms, but never the root cause. If it treated the cause, we wouldn’t need to buy it anymore.

    The vast majority of symptoms that I see are simply a result of chronic stress, energetic overspending and under-receiving, suppressed emotions causing a continuous cortisol drip, exposure to toxic chemicals, and neglect/misuse/abuse of the body.

    We have control over much of this!

    This is the work I do. Relieving stress and pain, integrating emotions, supporting the body’s needs so it can detox and repair, and filling up the energetic tank. I see it working day after day in my clients and students and I am a living, breathing, joyful example that making healthful choices consistently has a tremendous impact on well-being.

    What is one thing you can do today to nourish yourself?

    What is one thing you can do today to support your body, mind, heart and spirit?

    What is one thing you can do today that reduces your exposure to chemicals- be it in food, water, personal care products or your environment?

    What is one thing you can do today to protect your energy? It might entails saying NO, better yet, HELL NO! to something you don’t want to do.

    What is one thing you can do today to move your body in a way that feels pleasurable?

    Just one thing! Do that one simple thing for a week or two and then add another thing.

    I bet you already have a thing in mind. Something that you’ve been thinking about for a while and just lacking the motivation to take the plunge.

    Today is the perfect day to get started on the next level of your healing journey. Any empowered action in the direction you want to go will ripple outwards and affect others as well.

    If you want, you can get started right now by placing a hand on your heart and making a commitment to yourself.

    Perhaps you’d like to repeat these words from the mindful self-compassion tradition:

    May I be safe.

    May I be healthy.

    May I be at peace.

    May I be kind to myself.

    May I make choices to support my overall wellness.

    If you’d like some support, that’s what I’m here for! I do Reiki healing sessions for people around the globe and soothing, nurturing bodywork here in Philadelphia. It’s my mission to spread this message of self-care and empowerment. I’d be delighted to work with you if that sounds appealing.

    But not today. Today, I’m going on a hike, eating fabulous food, reading a fun book and connecting with my friends. I’ll be back in the office tomorrow and ready to give from my overflowing tank.

     

    I wrote an article over on Substack about my process of reviewing the year through a holistic health and spiritual journey lens. Check out Annual Review if you’d like to learn more about this radical way of thinking.

    Radiant Aging and Birthday Bliss

    I’m getting older and let me tell you, it’s pretty amazing! Today is my birthday and…

  • Good Energy: The Surprising Connection Between Metabolism and Limitless Health by Casey Means, MD.

    This book is blowing my mind! It has so much information about the causes of rampant lack-of-wellness and disease in our world and very straightforward remedies.

    She exposes heavy duty conflicts of interest in the medical industrial complex, Big Pharma and the processed food industry.

    Really, you want to know this stuff so you can make good choices about your habits to build optimal health.

    There’s a lot of science and hard facts for those who want the numbers and nerdy stuff but it’s very readable. I can’t recommend it enough.

    From her website:

    ABOUT THE BOOK

    What if depression, anxiety, infertility, insomnia, heart disease, erectile dysfunction, type 2 diabetes, Alzheimer’s dementia, cancer and many other health conditions that torture and shorten our lives actually have the same root cause?

    The truth is, they do. And our ability to prevent and reverse these conditions – and feel incredible NOW – is under our control and simpler than we think. The key is our metabolic function: the way we make energy in our cells and bodies. The ability to make GOOD ENERGY in our bodies is the most important and least understood factor in our overall health, and the biggest blindspot in healthcare.

    I wish everyone would read this book!

    Good Energy: The Surprising Connection Between Metabolism and Limitless Health by Casey Means, MD. This book…